AllenOK
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Three weeks ago my coworkers informed me that my spouse was cheating on me. They had found some pictures of her and another guy on FB. My kids all knew about it, and she had told the kids not to tell me. We did a little digging and realized she's been cheating on me for over a year.
Monday I confronted her about it, and told her I wanted out. Immediately, and without remorse, she asked me what I was going to take. I told her what I wanted, and she agreed.
This evening, I got the last of my stuff out of that house. I am staying in a friend's basement to get back on my feet.
She ran my finances so far into the red that I need to file bankruptcy.
I was able to leave with most of the fishing gear. I left some stuff for our kids. "Someone" started kicking my rods around. She says it was one of my boys, he says it was her. I don't know which one to believe. I haven't had a chance to inspect every rod, but I don't think any are damaged. I did get all my tying gear, except my desk. I don't really have space to store, and they have a use for it. I got it at a thrift shop for $20, so no big loss.
I got a new phone a few days ago. This is the first chance I've to get on the site.
I do not know how things are going to be. I don't know if I'll be able to fish as much as I used to. Probably won't be tying flies or jigs much, of at all, for awhile. I want to stay a part of my kids' lives.
Monday I confronted her about it, and told her I wanted out. Immediately, and without remorse, she asked me what I was going to take. I told her what I wanted, and she agreed.
This evening, I got the last of my stuff out of that house. I am staying in a friend's basement to get back on my feet.
She ran my finances so far into the red that I need to file bankruptcy.
I was able to leave with most of the fishing gear. I left some stuff for our kids. "Someone" started kicking my rods around. She says it was one of my boys, he says it was her. I don't know which one to believe. I haven't had a chance to inspect every rod, but I don't think any are damaged. I did get all my tying gear, except my desk. I don't really have space to store, and they have a use for it. I got it at a thrift shop for $20, so no big loss.
I got a new phone a few days ago. This is the first chance I've to get on the site.
I do not know how things are going to be. I don't know if I'll be able to fish as much as I used to. Probably won't be tying flies or jigs much, of at all, for awhile. I want to stay a part of my kids' lives.